Old Uncle
John was so spry as he had once been. There were a few black hairs
left among the many gray ones. His limbs are shaky and his steps
faltering. He was "no good for work anymore," he said; but there
were two things that he kept on doing right along; he seemed to be
always smiling and seemed to be always praising the Lord. "Happy
John," people called him, and he certainly deserved the name. He did
not seem to havee much of this world's goods to make him glad. His
lot in life did not appear to be more than usually pleasant, nor was
there anything in the way of external evidence to show where his
happiness came. I had often sat and gazed upon his placid face
lifted in devotion to God. He never seemed to get into troubles. No
matter what happened, Uncle John seemed to have no part in trouble.
With others, trouble came and troubles went, but Uncle John still
smiled and praised the Lord.
One day I was
standing outside the meeting-house with a little company of
brethren, when Uncle John came walking out, smiling as usual and
praising the Lord. On eof the brethren said to him, "Uncle John, how
does to come that you are always so happy and never seem to get into
trouble?" he stopped and looked at the speaker with a broad smile,
and answered, "I just praise the Lord and mind my own business." He
turned and walked away, but his words lingered in my ears and were
indelibly impressed upon my memory. His secret was very simple, but
very effective. And thus he went on smiling, praising the Lord and
minding his own business, and he was "happy John" even to the end.
Many years ago he went to his reward, but the lesson that I learned
that day has never been lost.
Uncle John's
rule for keeping out of trouble seemed very simple. It looks very
easy to mined one's own business, but it is one of the hardest
things in the world to do, because it is one of the hardest things
in the world for us to e willing to do. The scripture says, "Every
fool will be meddling," and it is so hard for some folks not to act
like fools, anyway in this particular respect, even though they are
ever so wise. The affairs of others are so interesting to them! This
is a very human trait, but it sometimes leads to unpleasant
consequences.
God knew the
failing of people on this line, so he said, "Study to be quiet, and
do your own business" (1 Thess.4:11). You have no doubt, studied a
great many lessons, but have you studied this particular one? It is
evident that many have not yet learned this if they have studied it
over. Probably they did know that is requires studying. Possibly
they never thought of it as an object for study. But it is. We shall
never graduate in the school of wisdom until we study this lesson
and learn it thoroughly. "Study to be quiet and to do your own
business." That is the lesson. Have you learned it? There seems to
be no end to talk of some things that should not be talked of. Some
people can not keep an experience of salvation because they talk too
much, and as result they have a great deal of spiritual trouble that
might be avoided. But, then, they are so interested in their friends
and neighbors! How can they help talking about them? Why, just let
them give themselves a few lessons in minding their own business.
Peter had
that human trait. He was interested in what John was going to do.
When he asked the Lord. "What shall this man do?" he received an
answer. He did not have to wait for it,. It was this, "What is that
to thee? Follow thou me." I have known many good Christian people
who became mixed up in neighborhood pr family affairs and got into a
great mess of trouble because they failed to mind their own
business. If there is a dog-fight going on, all the dogs in the
community seem to want to join in it. There seems to be something in
humanity that is very much the same. If there is a trouble in the
community they want to mix into it someway or another. Trouble is a
thing that is much easier to get into that it is to get out of.
More people
get into trouble through the wrong use of their tongue than through
any other means. I suppose. The wise man says, "He that keepeth his
tongue keepeth his souls from trouble." He also says, "The beginning
of strife is as when one letteth out water." You know how it runs in
every directions, so that you can not gather it up again nor
continue it. Never meddle with the strife of others. You are sure of
an abundant crop of trouble if you do. It is written, "He that
passeth by and meddleth with strife belonging not to him is like one
that taketh a dog by the ears." You know how that is: if he holds
fast he will get into trouble, and if he lets go he will get into
trouble.
There are
some people who are religious and who seem to get along pretty well
until their children get mixed up into trouble with some one. Just
as sure as that happens they are in trouble too. They think that
their children could not be blame. They take the children's part and
trouble is the result. And when they have gotten out of the trouble,
if they do get out, they have dishonored both themselves and their
religion. There are others who can never let trouble alone if their
friends, and they are often so partial in their feelings toward them
that they cannot believe them to be wrong. They become all heated in
the things, and before they knew it they have a big case of
spiritual trouble on hand in addition to the other trouble.
When people
get into trouble, they like to tell others about it. If you have
sympathetic ears for trouble, you can hear plenty of it. When you
hear such things, it very easy to pass them on to some one else.
Never let yourself be a news-carrier for trouble. You will have
trouble of your own if you do. The only business that a Christian
has in relation to such troubles is as a peacemaker, and even then
he must be very cautious and wise, or he will become involved.
Few people
want to take God's way out of trouble. They will do anything to have
their own way out. We are told to leave off strife before it is
meddled with. That is the only safe way. While you are out, keep
out; and the only way to keep out is to mind your own business. Try
Uncle John's rule. It will work very well. It is a splendid
preventive of trouble. Would you be happy? Would you have the
confidence of your neighbors and associates? Would you be free from
worldly entanglements? Would you have a contented heart and a
cheerful mind? Would you be worthy of the esteem of the people?
Would you be different from worldly people? Would you be a
sunshine-bearer for your neighborhood? There is just one way to do
it. You must do as "happy John"-did smile, praise the Lord, and mind
your own business.