The Keeper


I grew up in the 40s/50s with practical parents. A Mother, God love her,
who washed aluminum foil after
she cooked in it, then reused it. She was the original recycle queen,
before they had a Name for it...

A father who was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones.
Their marriage was good, their dreams focused. Their best friends lived
barely a wave away. I can see them now,

Dad in trousers, tee shirt and a hat and Mom in a house dress, lawn mower
in one hand, and dish-towel in the other.
It was the time for fixing things. A curtain rod, the kitchen radio,
screen door, the oven door, the hem in a dress. Things we keep.

It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy. All that re-fixing,
eating, renewing, I wanted just
once to be wasteful. Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knew there'd always be more.

But then my mother died, and on that clear summer's night, in the warmth
of the hospital room, I was
struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any more.
Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up and

goes away...never to return. So... while we have it... it's best we love
it.... and care for it... and fix it when it's broken...... and heal it
when it's sick.

This is true for marriage..... and old cars.... and children with bad
report cards..... and dogs with bad hips.... and aging parents.....

and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it. Some things we keep. Like a best friend that moved away or a classmate we grew up with. There are just some things that
make life important, like people we know who are special..... and so, we
keep them close!

I received this from someone who thinks I am a 'keeper', so I've sent it
to the people I think of in the same way.. Now it's your turn to send this to those people that are "keepers" in your
life Good friends are like stars.... You don't always see them,
but you know they are always there. Keep them close!