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"Self-preservation
is the first law of nature." Everything has some
method of protection. Even the plants have
"defense mechanisms." Animals have shells,
teeth, sharp claws, are swift of foot or wing.
Some of them produce noxious odors. Some of them
are unpleasant to the taste. The octopus
secretes an inky fluid with which to color the
water. Some animals have great skill in hiding
themselves. Some have electric defenses. Some
are covered with spines.
Man has a natural
instinct of self-preservation. He will run or
fight or secrete himself or use other methods of
defense. This law of defense is manifest in
man's physical contact with nature. This is
known too well to need explanation. He has also
various mental defense mechanisms. Likewise in
spiritual things he seeks to protect himself.
These various
defense mechanisms have a powerful effect upon
our conduct. When we are brought into a trial,
threatened by something that will hurt or annoy
us, when we fear something, our defense
mechanisms begin at once to function. The first
impulse is to run away, to escape from the
trouble. We shrink from what hurts. We try to
avoid trials and all hard or unpleasant things.
It is often the
part of wisdom to avoid as far as we can without
sacrificing something vital, the unpleasant
things of life. But if we give away too much to
this disposition to shrink from things and to
run away from them it leads to cowardice. We
lose strength of character, courage, and the
qualities that win in life. A coward can never
feel self-respect, and if we are spiritual
cowards we shall be lacking in manhood and
womanhood. We cannot respect cowardice even when
it is in ourself.
This disposition to
escape unpleasantness often leads to an unfair
excusing of ourselves in things in which we have
been at fault. It often leads to our putting the
wrong face on things, exaggeration, minimizing
the facts, and even to plain lying. These are
the natural fruits of fear and worry, but they
undermine spiritual character. They take the joy
out of life. We need to watch our defense
mechanisms and be sure that we use right methods
of defense, methods that build up the character
rather than to tear it down; methods that
increase courage, faith, and determination. We
should conquer the instinctive cowardice of our
natures. "Safety first" may be a good slogan
sometimes but safety through the measures
mentioned is not real safety. It is only
exchanging one kind of danger for another.
Another defense
mechanism is the tendency to resistance. When we
adopt proper measures of resistance the results
will probably be good. We are likely to be
strengthened, encouraged, and helped. It is
likely to bring out the best there is in us. But
sometimes this instinct of resistance manifests
itself in murmuring, complaining against
circumstances or against people, blaming others
for our plights or our troubles, shifting
responsibility. These may become chronic
faultfinding and result in such a critical
attitude that we are hard to please,
contentious, ill-tempered. We may become
disposed to become impatient and find it hard to
practice self-control. We may have a sense of
resentment against others and become unkind and
uncharitable in our attitude.
Not only those who
are not Christians have trouble along these
lines, but many Christians are tempted in this
way. They worry and fear. They become
discouraged and then the characteristics
mentioned begin to manifest themselves in them.
They have a fight to overcome them. They wonder
why they are impatient, why it is hard to be
kind, why they have a feeling of resentment
against things.
We need not be
surprised at this. It is only a defense
mechanism. It is Nature trying to escape from
this highly unpleasant situation. So, reader,
you need not be surprised if you have a conflict
with these things when you are worrying and when
you have given way to discouragement. To get rid
of these things get rid of your worry, your
fear, and your discouragement. Then these other
things will naturally disappear. But if you are
given to worry do not expect to escape wholly
from these things. Indeed you are likely to have
much trouble with them. These are not
necessarily the result of sin. They are the
result of worry and fear. They come from a wrong
attitude of mind, a wrong outlook on things, a
wrong way of trying to overcome difficulties.
In such a situation
the outlook is negative. We need to change to a
positive attitude. We need to put faith in the
place of doubts. Trust instead of worry. Look on
the bright side instead of the dark side.
A negative attitude
destroys faith and robs courage of its strength,
so we can bear little. It covers the bright
picture of hope with sackcloth. It banishes
peace. Instead of soul-rest we have turmoil and
trouble. It robs us of balance and poise.
Confidence fades away. It gives place to
distrust. We lose our power of initiative. In
fact, worry and fear rob us of all the choice
blessings we might possess. They prevent us from
using our powers and make us pigmies instead of
giants.
The triumphant life
results from courageous action and this
courageous action is always based on faith. It
has a hopeful outlook. It faces the future with
confidence. This is the normal attitude of the
Christian. But worry causes heaviness,
discouragement, dissatisfaction, despondency,
and perhaps despair. Long giving way to worry
will change the character. The blithe gaiety of
childhood, the courageous strength of manhood,
the joyful song of victory, gives way to
moroseness and gloom. Clouds cover the sky and
we forget there are anywhere the glorious beams
of sunshine. We ruin our influence with others.
They feel more like shunning us than being in
our society. It shackles our hands. It robs life
of what is most worth while. If we will have a
worry tree or a number of them we must expect
they will bear this sort of fruit.
Worry also has
another extremely bad result. It dishonors God.
We say God is our Father, that he is taking care
of us. We say we have faith in him. We say we
believe God is faithful. Then we act in a way
altogether contrary to this. If God is our God
and if he is taking care of us, if we are safe
in his care, if no evil can come to us without
his permission, then what are we worrying about?
If God really is what he says he is and what we
believe he is we have no reason to worry. Things
are bound to come out all right. God will find
some way to bring us through to victory. He will
protect us against those things that would
injure us. If he is true our fears are
ungrounded, our worry is all for nothing. If we
really believe God is true and that he is true
to us there is not a reason under heaven for us
to spend one moment worrying.
Again, worry
dishonors God's Word. He has made definite
promises. These promises are true or they are
not true. If they are not true then we may have
cause for worry. But if they are true let us act
like it. Do we actually believe God's Word? If
so, when we are tempted to worry let us sit
down, take that Word, and read its promises.
Then let us believe them and act as tho we
believe them. When we do this there can be no
room for worry.
Worry ignores the
help God has given us in the past and the
victories we have won through his grace; also
those victories we have won through our own
strength. When we are tempted to worry we should
sit down and look over the past and see how many
things came out better than we expected they
would. We should ob serve how God has helped us
in the past and say with one of old, "Hitherto
hath the Lord helped us." It will do us great
good, when we are tempted to worry, to recount
our past victories; to look back and see that
our past worries were all for naught. When did
worrying help anything in your past life? When
did worrying keep anything from coming upon you
that otherwise would have come? When did worry
shield you from any trouble? Get rid of your
worry tree. Get out from under its shadow. Get
into God's sunshine. If you will do this it will
not be long until the song of victory flows
forth from your lips and peace and courage and
hope spring up anew in your
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